Demi Lovato (25) approaches people she likes and finds attractive through Instagram. “I now learn what I like, what I need and what I want.”

 The Stone Cold singer says Wednesday to People  that she “does not suffer,” now that she is single. “There were years that I had a relationship and I did not learn anything about myself.” Now she does so according to her own words.

Lovato was six years together with her friend Wilmer Valderrama (38), but that relationship has been over for two years. Now the singer is looking for “someone who treats her like a queen.” She does not find it scary to do her best.

“I’m usually the one who gets on the other,” says Demi Lovato. “I always ask first of the two: can I have your number? Or I send them a private message via Instagram.”